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Sexual Positions

January 1st, 2013 No comments

Everybody knows the missionary position, but there’s a multitude of other ways of getting intimate between the sheets. Here’s an outline of the most well known sex positions to spice up your lovemaking.

Missionary

Description: The classic, most natural position that only humans use. You lie on your back, legs open. Your partner penetrates you, lying over you, leaning on his knees or elbows so that he doesn’t put too much weight on you.

Pleasure points: The man gets more out of the missionary position than the woman. He controls everything: the rhythm and intensity of penetration and the angle. With little room for movement, you can only move your pelvis or legs to obtain better clitoral stimulation. In short, ecstasy isn’t guaranteed.

Advantages: Ideal for romantic lovers, this position encourages eye contact and kissing. Your bodies are in full contact with each other, face to face, you can look each other in the eyes and embrace affectionately. It’s easy, natural and perfect for first-time sex.

Disadvantages: Sometimes judged too monotonous and boring, the missionary position has a rather routine reputation. It’s love without tiring yourself out.

Cowgirl

Description: Ladies, here’s the key to sexual domination! Its name comes from the image of you “riding” your partner as a cowboy rides a bucking horse. In practice, the man lies down on his back while you sit or squat on top of him.

Pleasure points: Sexologists often recommend this position to women in search of vaginal orgasms. It encourages female pleasure because the woman is in control: you choose the angle of your body, the angle and depth of penetration and the rhythm of the movements. What’s more, the cowgirl position is ideal for stimulating the G spot because the area at the front of the vagina gets special attention.

Advantages: Your man’s hands are free to caress your clitoris, bottom or breasts while you ride him. Also, this position tends to slow down the male orgasm, so it can be useful for men who ejaculate too quickly.

Disadvantages: While lots of men like to satisfy their submission fantasies, others don‘t appreciate being dominated in such a way. It’s up to you to show him that this position can bring him plenty of pleasure!

Doggy Style

Description: The doggy style position has animal connotations because the woman is positioned on all fours and the man, on his knees, penetrates from behind. It’s a position that men, in particular, fantasise about.

Pleasure points: This position allows very deep penetration and a full union of your bodies. penetration can also take place slightly to one side, to the top or bottom, depending on the angle. This allows a very diverse range of sensations to be explored!

Advantages: The man can easily access the clitoris during penetration and add to the woman’s sensations. He can also let his hands wander over his partner’s body.

Disadvantages: The most romantic of lovers won’t appreciate this rather bestial position, which doesn’t involve eye contact. The man also needs to be careful not to go in too strong because the depth of penetration can sometimes be painful for the woman.

69

Description: As the famous number suggests, the two partners lie top to tail on their sides or one on top of the other. The man’s mouth comes into contact with the woman’s genitals and vice versa, and both perform oral sex on each other at the same time.

Pleasure points: The 69 is two-way pleasure. Each of you have access to the most sensitive parts of each other’s bodies with the lips and tongue. The clitoris, vagina and penis are simultaneously stimulated for a moment of intense, shared pleasure.

Advantages: Carried out as foreplay, the 69 is an ideal position to increase pleasure and arousal.

Disadvantages: Some people don’t like the 69 position because concentrating on the other person’s pleasure stops them from fully letting go and enjoying their own sensations.

Spoons

Description: A very visual expression: the two partners lie down on the same side, like spoons. The man is pressed against the woman’s back and penetrates her from behind.

Pleasure points: Like with the doggy style position, the spoons position allows deeper vaginal penetration, which is enjoyable for both partners. The joining of bodies from head to foot creates a feeling of fusion.

Advantages: It’s a relaxed position, great for when you’re tired after a night out, for example. It calls for soft, slow and tender movements, and is ideal for amateurs. Also, pregnant women will appreciate being able to make love without being bothered by their expanding belly.

Disadvantages: You need to be keen on calm, snuggled-up lovemaking. It’s not for those who prefer full-on action!

Source: So Feminine Sex Positions

Missionary Position

November 3rd, 2012 No comments

The missionary position is a classic in the act of love and is the most common position in Western sexuality.

A little history

The missionary position is the most natural sexual position. It gets its name from the time when the Evangelical church sent its priests to faraway lands where they advised indigenous communities to use the position because it was the best for procreation! However, this is not scientifically proven. Only humans have sex in the missionary position.

The technique

Face-to-face, you lie on your back with your legs apart while he lies on top of you, using his elbows and knees to support his weight so that he doesn’t squash you.

Sensations

The missionary is not the most ‘efficient’ position for a woman in terms of pleasure, if we consider only physical sensation. However, if your partner adopts a good angle, the side of the vagina and the G spot can be stimulated very well. It’s up to you to position your legs and body to get the best contact possible between his pubis and your clitoris. Some women place a cushion under their buttocks for extra pleasure. If the clitoris is not stimulated enough, try sliding your hand between your bodies to caress yourself during penetration.

Disadvantages

This position restricts movement for women, and can sometimes feel as if you’re being pinned down. Avoid this position if he is a little on the large side! Also, he controls everything: the rhythm, intensity and depth of penetration and angle of the penis, so it could be said he gets more out of it than you! And some people complain that this position lacks ‘fantasy’ because the movements are quite monotonous.

The best time to do it

Although the missionary has a reputation for being banal and routine, it’s still best position for first-time sex because it’s easy and natural. It’s also particularly suitable for romantic love-making as the bodies are in contact all along the body, the lovers are face to face and can look into each others eyes and kiss passionately. It’s also good if you want sex but you’re tired, as it’s quite relaxing. The missionary can be unpleasant during pregnancy, so expectant mothers should use their imagination to find the best position for their bump.

Pickup Lines that Work

June 2nd, 2012 No comments

Women say the right words can mean the difference between going back to her place and going home alone. Here’s what she wants to hear.

Next time you’re chatting up a woman, open with humor. It’ll go over better than you may think.

Turns out men have a hard time knowing how women respond to different pickup lines. That’s according to a recent study from the University of Edinburgh.

In particular, the study said men can’t guess how well humor and sexual innuendo will go over with women.

Humor works. We’re not talking Carrot Top prop-comedy. Think dry wit, like Noel Coward. And if you have to look him up, that’s great—you’ll have something to talk about with her.

“The best pickup lines are the ones that are just so stupid you have to laugh, and that laughing will hopefully turn into an actual conversation,” says Raechelle, 22, of Atlanta.

Sexual talk, on the other hand, doesn’t work—though many men continue to think so.

Here’s a short summary, through the prism of Lisa Daily, a dating expert and author of Stop Getting Dumped! Being funny “gives” women something (a laugh), while sexual innuendo implies you want to “get” something from women (sex).

Here’s how the study worked: Men and women were shown 40 situations in which a man tried to start a conversation with a woman. The men and women rated each situation on how likely they thought the woman would be to continue the interaction.

The lines that the men tried fell into four categories: sexual, humorous, complimentary, or something that indicated he was a “good mate—such as discussing a painting at an art gallery or asking a female jogger who tripped if she was okay.

Turns out tha—surprise, surprise—men and women rated the scenarios differently.

Men overestimated how successful sexually explicit lines such as the candid, “Look, we get on pretty well, and I was just wondering if you want to have sex with me tonight?” would go over.

And men underestimated how positively women would react to comments that displayed positive traits like kindness, wealth, and honesty.

Women also gave higher ratings to humorous approaches (“Excuse me, I just noticed you noticing me and I just wanted to give you notice that I noticed you too. . . “) than men thought they would.

What Doesn’t Work

Most sexual pickup lines don’t work because they indicate you only want one thing—and that’s not what women are looking for, says Susan Rabin, director of schoolofflirting.com and author of 101 Ways to Flirt.

“Women don’t like to be sex objects,” she says. “Men are very visual, and they see sex when they see a woman. It may be on your mind, but keep it off your mouth.”

Being overly confident that a woman wants to sleep with you is a turn-off, says Daily. “With most women, sexually explicit pickup lines have the opposite effect of what you’re hoping for—they repel women. Tone down the sex talk and you’re likely to get more action.

“Women also tend to think that men who use these types of pickup lines have no depth. They’re just a penis looking for a place to land,” she says.

What Might Work

Sometimes a compliment is the best way to approach a woman. But not something cheesy, such as “Your eyes are blue, like the ocean. And baby, I’m lost at sea.”

Be sincere and specific, and avoid commenting on physical attributes, Daily says. “Compliments work if they are honest, relatively unique to us, and not sexually charged. In other words, compliment her shoes, her wit, or her knowledge of kickboxing or the stock market. Not her fantastic lips or her fabulous body. Save those for when you know us better—a lot better.”

If you begin a conversation by complimenting a woman’s appearance, she may think you’re only out for one thing, says Caroline Tiger, author of How to Behave: Dating and Sex.

And don’t go overboard.

“Calling us beautiful is not bad,” says Trina, 26, of Syracuse, New York. “Calling us the most beautiful girl you have ever seen is terrible. We are not in denial. We check out other women. No matter how good a girl looks or thinks she looks, she knows that there are hotter, more beautiful chicks around. Don’t lie to us!”

What Usually Works

Instead, be honest and be yourself.

“Sincerity is what really gets a girl’s attention. Simple conversation is great,” says Sara, 23, of Chicago.

Women in the study rated pickup lines in which the man revealed something about his character, personality, or interests higher than men thought they would. Using this approach gives the woman an idea of how you’ll treat her if you start dating.

“In relationships, all women want a guy who cares about their well-being,” Daily says. “If our first experience with him shows he is a nice, considerate guy, we don’t feel like we have to keep our guard up around him. Which means it’s easier for a guy to get to know us and progress the relationship.

“No woman ever wants to feel like she is simply a target for sex,” Daily adds. “Most women want to be with a nice guy—if you give us a glimpse of this in the beginning, you’ll have us hooked.

“It’s far more intriguing to discover the sexy side of a nice guy than it is to learn that the all-about-sex guy has a ‘nice’ side.”

You can show off your “good mate” qualities by taking interest in whatever she’s doing. In the study, asking a women at a bookstore about the paperback she was looking at and talking to a woman at an art museum about the painting she was admiring were both scored favorably by women.

This doesn’t mean you have to start reading Shakespeare or studying Monet to attract a woman. In fact, namedropping in the wrong situation—such as quoting Byron in a bar—will most likely make you appear pompous instead of intellectual. (Quoting Noel Coward? Okay, a little pretentious, but at least amusing.)

However, you can use the “what are you reading?” strategy in places outside of the library. Just ask her a question or make a comment about whatever she’s doing, whether it’s the lecture you’re attending or what she’s drinking, Rabin says.

What Always Works

Don’t underestimate the power of humor. Women in the study rated funny pickup lines more favorably than men did. Using the right kind of humor can be a great conversation starter.

“People want to be with somebody who makes them laugh,” Tiger says. “It’s easier for somebody to accept you or to continue the conversation when you initiate it with a laugh.”

Rabin suggests saying something funny that’s relevant to where you are and what you’re doing. But avoid sarcasm because it can put people off.

A light joke also shows you put some thought into your approach.

“One reason the ‘humorous pickup’ is successful is because you are giving us something—a laugh—rather than trying to get something from us—sex—in the first few minutes you meet us. If you’re trying to make us laugh, you’re making an effort, which can be immensely appealing,” Daily says.

She has one warning, though: “Don’t try this approach if you’re not funny. If you’re not getting real laughs, or if you find yourself saying ‘Get it?’ even once, it’s time to switch strategies. Remember: Funny is sexy. Not funny is annoying.”

The Best Strategy: No Pickup Lines

What other approaches do women prefer?

“Conversation, conversation, conversation. It actually makes us girls think you are interested, so get good at acting interested. We like to talk,” says Trina. “Let her hear you tell your friends you think she is hot. I am telling you, this works like a charm.

“Girls love to think that guys are talking about them. When they overhear you talking about them, it is a huge turn-on—just don’t make it too obvious.”

Tiger also says approaching her friends first is a good idea. “You’ll be less nervous about starting that conversation and may be more natural. And talk like she’s a real person, not an object of your sex admiration.”

If you’re nervous or believe you’re a less-than-stellar conversationalist, recruit a friend to help start the discussion—and to make you look good, Tiger says.

Also watch her body language for clues to tell if she’s interested in your or if she wishes you’d go away. Eye contact and turning her body toward you are good signs. Appearing distracted or angling herself toward her group of friends? Not so good.

“Do a little long-distance flirting first, to see if she might be interested. If she smiles, holds eye contact for more than 3 seconds, flips her hair, or exposes her neck, she probably has at least some interest,” Daily says.

“Then move about half the distance between you and see if the flirting continues. If she looks longer or smiles more, make the move to approach her. Pay attention to her body language. If she’s shutting you down, you might want to move on.”

“A modest smile and acknowledging tilt of the head works for me,” says Kathleen, 22, of Shillington, Pa. “If I reciprocate, a respectful approach and down-to-earth, fun conversation and flirting from there on out.”

Of course, you can never guess what approach each woman prefers, but a smile is always good.

“If you’re Brad Pitt, anything you say would work. But most average men have to be careful with what you say,” Rabin says. “A smile is always a great approach. It’s the universal flirting skill, and it diffuses negativity.”

Source : Men’s Health

The Benefits of Being Married

April 7th, 2012 No comments

If you’re susceptible to vice, find a wife. She’ll save you from yourself—and improve your life—in a variety of ways. Notably, she’ll . . .

1. Increase Your Pay
A Virginia Commonwealth University study found that married men earn 22 percent more than their similarly experienced but single colleagues.

2. Speed Up Your Next Promotion
Married men receive higher performance ratings and faster promotions than bachelors, a 2005 study of U.S. Navy officers reported.

3. Keep You Out of Trouble
According to a recent U.S. Department of Justice report, male victims of violent crime are nearly four times more likely to be single than married.

4. Satisfy You in Bed
In 2006, British researchers reviewed the sexual habits of men in 38 countries and found that in every country, married men have more sex.

5. Help You Beat Cancer
In a Norwegian study, divorced and never-married male cancer patients had 11 and 16 percent higher mortality rates, respectively, than married men.


6. Help You Live Longer
A UCLA study found that people in generally excellent health were 88 percent more likely to die over the 8-year study period if they were single.

Source: Men’s Health

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